What makes a man..

We guys, grew up typically different from the gals.(am not being sexist la) Well, all my siblings are males ones, thus kinda endured more of robust hardy moments along the way as my age is taking its toll, particularly during toddler and my teenager period. Counting on, am lucky enuf to hav live 22 years-more a lil’ bit la, ripe enuf to be defined as an ADULT, full grown ADULT, or perhaps so-called man? Does this mean tat age makes a person a MAN? I knoe u guys gonna laugh n roll umpteen times if someone anonymous, describe for example, me as being..”tat man”..Thus, obviously age isn’t an option at all being tagged a MAN.

I believe there’s always a marked distingush-ment on how male and female to judge on what makes a man. Let’s us scroll the TOP 49 Men 2007 edition by www.askmen.com an annual vote throughout the world mostly by ladies in majority featuring men around the globe ranging from celebrities, sportsmen, millionaires n so on la. Make it short, let us had a glance at the top 5, starting from No.5 ;

So why he is No.5? Though Justin Timberlake spent the bulk of 2007 touring in support of his wildly successful second solo album, FutureSex/LoveSounds, the multifaceted performer took a substantial leap forward in earning the respect of an entirely new audience with appearances in several well-received films. His popularity among the tween set was cemented with his role in the animated blockbuster hit Shrek the Third, proving that he is more than jus a pretty face.


Why No.4 -The “Swiss Sensation” has arguably transformed himself into the best tennis player in decades — perhaps ever. Not only did he dominate the sport, but he flattened his closest competitors, Andy Roddick and Rafael Nadal-oops,well at least he lost in style last 2 months at the Wimbledon ’08. He tops the money list, and will undoubtedly finish as the top ranked player in the world, which he has been since 2004.


I dunno who the hell is he. Prolly a part-time gym trainer, full-time gangstaman.

Matt Damon spent the summer of 2007 entertaining audiences with two of the most successful trilogies in recent history, appearing in both Ocean’s Thirteen and The Bourne Ultimatum. Addition to the perks, he was nominated as one of the sexiest men alonside with BradPitt and Orlando Bloom in this magazine TouchWeekly’s 2007 Summer Edition. The movie The Departed, earned him a nomination of People’s Choice Awards.

Topping the chart last year was …No.1

Global soccer icon David Beckham became the $250-million man when he and wife, the Posh Spice moved to Beverly Hills to play for the Los Angeles Galaxy of the MLS. Between his tremendous talent, English charm, stylish wardrobe, and slick haircuts, Becks is single-handedly making soccer relevant stateside. Uh but well, asking around most of my hardcore football fans friends, there’s stil nil of them who ever wish to become him( in terms of football la )

So, does all the glorious lifetime achievements, poshness lifestyle, internationally notable fame tagged them to make them a MAN? Or izzit jus the masquerade, like papers on parade?

Applying bac some of the conventional toughts before this, some were saying a real man, don cry, fear no pain. It was boasted that in Romance of 3 Kingdoms, one of my favourite epic history ever, General GuanYu does not even show a mimic on  his face while playing chess with one of his follower, while the famous Dr. Pan2Tong3 was performing an open srugery on his left arm scrapping away the infected bones, whic could ne even heard by ppl around them inside the camp. Well, asking me on my opinions, its more of the so called men-ego that makes them to state that a real men don cry la. Asking my experiences in A&E and even orthopedic department..yea u guys shud pay a visit, tat’s where lies the secret on how to make a guy cry like a 6 year old toddler – no joke!! 

So far, to me, every men dies; not every men really lives (Cewah!)..tat’s quote from Sir William Wallace actually. But it does sound senseful to me. A real man to me, is simple in definition, but hard to lift up to it le. A real man to me is someone who can really act to achieve things(big ones) by his guts that he already aimed for, not by being chance, n of course down-to-earth. So far, there’s 2 for i’m quite sure being Da’Man on my list..My dad and comes after him is..

No one can become him. Tell me what makes this man to become a Man?! …


About yenwee

There's nothing much i can bout myself, coz i think i've known myself much to the depth that i love myself more than anyone. hehe. Feel free to log into my previous blog which can be linked from here at 'My previous one' under He/She Blogs Too. In addition to those bla bla bla bout myself, i think now i've grown more ripe by age. World today seems to be more of making decision of either good or not that good. I cud felt that i'm nearer to what i want to achieve. Its jus bout few steps away from now before i reached that point..
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3 Responses to What makes a man..

  1. Chee Koon says:

    That got me wonders too.
    A man has to be strong…
    A man has to be gentle…
    A man has to be courageous…
    A man must be ambitious…
    A man must have money too.
    Not easy leh…

  2. yenwee says:

    Its never easy to be a man, ck. Never easy..

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