3 months ago since i’m into blogging again, most i’ve blogged bout events n favourites, but too few of conjuring bout relationship. Well, half way bathing jus now, ideas jus came charging through my mind. Might be bit long here, hope u guys wud bear wit it ,do share wit me if there’s opinions which differ.
Well, i guess this type of question ;” U got gf ady ah? ” , “Are u attached?” is becoming a cliche in everyday’s life as age is catching up, not only among friends but also relatives of far n near. Jus 2 days ago when, i met my old friends in Ipoh, these questions jus popped out naturally within the first few seconds after meeting. After revealing my answer, well most of them wen agaped in a surprising look. “doctor wor…nobody comes after u ah” My aunty who recently jus came n visited me also didn lose the chance to ask this. Well, at times i wud get so weared of these questions and sometimes irritated by their expression of how surprised of my answer even though am doctor-to-be. Normally i wud jus give a sly smile n hop to other topics. Of course some preservere ones wud had thought tat i’m being humble trying to probe more which in fact, hell-NO! I wud be dead happie if there’s any gals after me wei..XD. Let me explain la..
Doctors, n yet cannot get a partner, or perhaps lawyer, engineers n rest of top professions isn’t a BIG thing la wei. Halo~!… Today, everything shifts and raise. Quality of life, academic achievements, career, had much shifted being dominated by the feminine gender. N these aspects prove tat gals today are independant not only the stability of survival, but wisdom wise, they are outreaching the guys. More n more gals are being self-sufficient in most of the daily routine aspects. So, guys out there, if today u ever expect the galfriend of u now gonna ever stay at home mugging wit all the housechores, u r indeed expecting me to be 6′ feet tall..lol. Let face it, the truth is today, gals will not die of hunger for their men to feed them. So professions like wat’ve mentioned which promised a stable good income(not doctors) are an addition jus for their daily needs. So to me, if a gal who’s after me jus becoz wat i gonna be, it jus implies me tat greed is upon them or perhaps they wan the reputation..maybe?
Jus touching bits of an ideal guy today, for wat i’ve observed, most gals today NEEDS guys who can look after them physically, and able to share their problems, and WANTS guys who looks good. In short, guys with trades of TALL, if possibly well built, and CARING are near impossible, not to get any gals of their life, coz i wud say these are the basic trades of an ideal guy nowadays. Call it nuisance if u wan, but i think today, its gals who chooses guys rather than the other way round.. true?